The Yellow Line train has some of the weirdest folks I’ve ever seen. The Green Line is a spectacle of a different nature; it’s one I’m familiar with, though. Thick Poetic Justice-like braids and blue lipstick is common in my city. Locks and Durant’s are common in my city. The city that I knew, anyway. This is a whole other world to me. The backpacks have been replaced by rolling suitcases and undone ties. This is new to me…but very necessary.
I ran away from it all. You can call me a quitter or whatever you want but I can’t do it anymore. To hell with the blogs, to hell with the Red Line and to hell with this transient ass city. As soon as I fly out of Reagan to my next forever, you can ‘DMV’ it up as much as you want…
I didn’t want to leave but I had to. Every shift from the black, white, and gray Sobiato sweatsuits to the red H&M skinny jeans nudged me to this point. Each gentrified neighborhood and random condominium construction ate at my love for a place I never planned to defend so fiercely. When did D.C. become a destination city for young people? An entire dream city for young Black people, at that. Go and ruin Atlanta some more. Y’all went and closed one Beautiful Restaurant down there; do y’all really have to come up here and pack Stan’s to the point I just shrug and put on my iPod headphones and head back to the McPherson Square station and quietly fume? I can’t even get a half-smoke at Ben’s Chili Bowl without a line of tourists murmuring ‘Bill Cosby used to come here all the time’; take your JELL-O and walk off a bridge in search of a spoon, please. I asked nicely so now you kind of HAVE to do it. Bye *insert wave emoji here, iPhone users*
That’s why I’m on this flight, cuddled in between two fat women that don’t mind me laying my head on their rolls. ‘Luchini’ is blasting in my Apple Beats (or whatever Dre agreed to let Jobs’ sons call these headphones) and I refuse to lean over to view what I’m leaving. No way I’ll miss Gallery Place and all the under aged kids barred from every restaurant outside of the McDonald’s and Chipotle in the Verizon Center. Those bar crawls in DuPont Circle won’t mean anything to me. Who cares about those Fort Stevens fights on the basketball courts? Not I. I’m gone. Gone forever. To where, I don’t know. I was your prince; whoever supplants me will never hold you in higher regard. I left all my Shooters gear in my mother’s attic; maybe I’ll hit you up when I get to wherever I wind up…
“Welcome to Cleveland-Hopkins International Airport.”
Goddamnit…
To be continued…
A.J. Armstrong is the creator of The Fly Hobo and His World of Oddities. He’s also stuck in Cleveland. Part 2 coming soon…because Cleveland is pretty bad…
Is it weird I still think about them? What about the fact they routinely pop up in my head in the form of wistful nostalgia? How about the fact I still have pictures of them in my phone, even though some of them were two or three cells ago? Would you judge me if I told you I still pull up those pictures from time to time? Or that I stare at them longingly, wishing I could somehow relive some of the moments that continue to play on in my dreams? And the damn songs. Those songs all of them ruined because they send those complex emotions rushing back to me and make me relive the memories so often. Sometimes I sift through those pictures and replay those songs in my mind silently, some more somber than others…
I was in love with her at 12. By then, she lived 688 miles away in a city I had just left but loved just as much. I grew up with her and fell for her temper. We fought so damn fiercely, I knew that passion would eventually be channeled into something mature and timeless. I just KNEW it would. The song doesn’t really speak to what I felt and what I wanted her to feel; she just used to sing it off-key on the couch when I visited her. That picture of her smiling at me while an Ebony Magazine sits open in her lap always conjures up the love I have for the summer of ‘99…
This one loved the song “Like You” by Bow Wow and Ciara. I sit and look at my phone, amazed that somebody so pretty then could become more beautiful years after that youthfully ignorant pose that smiles back at me. I remember that song because it blared from her phone and I knew that someone she was more interested in was calling. The bridge is a run-on sentence that ended with what my heart screamed silently at her: IAin’tNeverHadNobodyShowMeAllTheThingsThatYouDoneShowedMeAndTheSpecialWayIFeelWhenYouHoldMeWeGon’AlwaysBeTogetherBabyThat’sWhatYouToldMe- and I believe it- cuz I ain’t never had nobody do me like you….
I still hate the man on the other end of those calls, even though I never formally met him. The fact my feelings were embodied in a song reserved for another dude pissed me off. Despite it (or because of it), that drove me harder to live out those lyrics during our aimless drives in my Ford Explorer…
Love can be either a continuous melody or a painful bookend, which is why Ms. “Like You” will forever be remembered by a Ghostface Killah song, too. Not even a song, actually; the instrumental to said song…I had some SHIT to say. Is love really being up late writing angry lyrics over a Ghostface track? If you’re angry enough…it makes sense to you, trust me. The “Back Like That” beat played in some shitty iPod headphones while I scribbled a message I desperately wanted to shout in her face…
Jay-Z’s “Dear Summer” made me a stalker. The copied-and-pasted Facebook pictures of her posing in her dorm room made me weird to the people that didn’t understand what love really is. If they knew, then they had to know why I wanted to stalk her. With that song playing over and over from an iPhone 3 perched in the bushes situated below her kitchen window. She would never notice my actual presence…but she would absolutely feel a certain discomfort at the amount of weird things happening around her. Simple things like me gluing the hair in her combs to her bathroom mirror in vague messages. Or weird, square-shaped patches missing from her beige pillow covers. Or her Twitter account being followed by @ImUp_IAmAlwaysUP_AndWatching_You. Thank God that’s not a long song, my Dear [Redacted]…
The next image is hard to look at; it’s harder to describe the impact such a passing moment continues to have. She stood in front of a fountain- one I walked by daily to a building that had professors that changed my life and women that made life hard and a department that dared me to be great- and held me like she was in love with it all without her really knowing so. My Little One. The single mother that was both thirsty for knowledge and unaware of her immaturity. When somebody so young is the anchor of her entire family, her saying her ringtone for you is “No Better Love” is special. I couldn’t even come up with a decent quip for it; it’s awesome, period. I hear that song and just imagine she still smiles whenever it gets played. It’s my only bridge to a past that easily could have been my forever. Maybe it’s my ego whispering to me that I will always matter within those three or four minutes. Maybe I just like the damn song and misremember how special it really was to her. Whatever. I don’t miss her. Nope. I’m not trying to convince myself at all…
Man, she stole MY song and made it OURS. That motherfucker. That humble, pretty, stacked motherfucker. I played a song I loved and she loved the song and now we love the song. “Time of Your Life” went from being something that elevated my mood and made me smile at the ridiculous nature of day-to-day life to becoming a burgeoning couples’ mood music. Her pictures are explicit so I won’t describe them (but I damn sure will keep on looking) but what the hell…?
This last picture is always hard because I never know how to feel. She deserved better from both him and I. I never knew what she was telling him when she laid in his apartment and I’m sure he never knew about our conversations. The only picture is one I snuck while she was looking at the video to our song, too drunk to even notice the flash. Did she play our song for him? Did she introduce him to the music video with her head so perfectly nestled under his chin like she did with me on my couch? She was never mine; she was either under me or him and the influence. I wonder what that kind of tugging did to her psyche, but I never asked. I just kind of waited for her to blurt it out in her weaker moments…
“8 doobies to the face…fuck dat/12 bottles in a case…nigga, fuck dat/2 pills and a half-weight…nigga, fuck dat/Got a high tolerance when your age don’t exist…”
My Beautiful Mistake makes those words seem so surreal. Who gives a shit about growing old when living in the now is so much more pleasurable? She had no concern to even know she would forever be suspended in that nonchalant pose. I wonder so many things when I stare at it. It feels ominous and dark; it’s also telling and intimate…
“Got a high tolerance when your age don’t exist…”
Timeless photos…
A.J. Armstrong listens to a lot of Drake late at night and tends to reminisce hard; this post was supposed to come out two days earlier. He is also the creator of The Fly Hobo and His World of Oddities
The Fly Hobo and His World of Oddities 